Russian brides are looking for a man abroad, because they are sick and tired of loneliness and are looking for a man in order to create a family with. In the first place it is important to turn attention on the positive qualities of men. It is well known, that if anything will happen in the relation than eventually it would be easy to correct that. But the basic ideas of your future fiancé should be clear and, to some extent, sustainable. It is important to remember, what did you felt while reading his first email? Whether you felt the sparkle, which could have ever merged into love? You need to listen to yourself. That does your heart tells you? Whether you like this or not, your heart is the best counselor, even though sometimes we just can’t discern all the details of its movement. Time, as well as additional information about this person, will put everything in its place.
And of course what should you write as a reply. The first letter is the pass into the next life as “getting married abroad”. You need to make as much efforts as you can, in order to present everything in the best way, and in order to create the best impression.
What language should two people use while writing to each other? It is best of all to write a letter in English or in the language of the country where you live. If this is not possible, write in Russian language. But you should be sure that the letter will be translated. Usually marital agencies provide this service, which is paid by men. If you will send an email in Russian language directly to the address of your admirer, he most likely will not search for a translator and leave your email without answer.
Can a woman use a sample letter? Of course, you can prepare a letter in which you provide basic information about yourself and ask the necessary questions to your man. However, you still need to treat each answer individually, by making the necessary additions. A man should feel that your response was drawn up only for him. So it would be good, if you will comment his letter with the words like: “you write that for you, family is the most important thing in life and I fully agree with you.” And also you need to carefully answer all of his questions.
What kind of information a woman should provide to her man? She should write about her family, work, about her native city and about things that she likes to do in the spare time. She need to give the opportunity to her man to present your life and the internal world. You need to be artistic and to add a bit of humor into your letter in order to keep the flame of interest.
What questions to ask? Try to ask your man, as many questions about his life and about his views on the world, as you can. Ask what his hobbies are, what he likes to do in his spare time. It is very important to learn about his lifestyle and habits. These are the parts of everyday life that will help building your relationship.
What things a woman should avoid in the correspondence? A woman should not ask any direct questions about the certain amount of money that man earns. It would be better if waiting until the moment when man will provide you with this information on his own. Material basis for marriage- is of course a very important thing, and the man who is interested in the firm marriage, will have to be very clear on the fact that he is marrying a Russian bride and will have to bear the responsibility on her expenses, that is why in the first or next letters he will have to tell by himself how ready he is to the new marriage.
Also a woman should never ask for money from her man, as this way she risks to get into the lost of scammers who are stealing money from foreigners, if your admirer will like you he will find a way to show his interest.